Love Lost?
11 September, 2009
Princess Raelynn
Tags: Broken Heart, Lost, Love
Recently I’ve been thinking about love. Not simple love, like the love of fairy tales or the love of tea, but complexed love involving two people. The words that follow, may not make sense. They’re simply the ramblings of a lost romantic.
Love is a process. It begins with a crush which leads to passion, but passion cannot last forever. When this passion dies, does the love die as well? Does love ever truely die? Is it possible, that passion simply gives way to another deeper form of careing?
How can anyone ever know? What if you choose someone during the time of passion, but it never gives way to deeper careing? When the passion dies we get confused. We see flaws in our chosen one, and it may seem others have less, or none at all. We try to think of what our chosen one does to make us happy, and what they don’t do. “He tells me he loves me. But he’s never shown it well.” “He knows I love flowers, yet I only get them if I give them to myself.” It’s far too confusing for one to comprehend, but we feel we must.
We begin to ask, “What if..” What if I ignore the one I’m meant to be with because I’m with this other person? What if he isn’t who I think? He doesn’t seem to be who he once was, what if he never was who I thought? What if I don’t really feel as I think I do?
The one we’ve been with may know everything about us and we may be able to tell them everything, but maybe they don’t do the simple things we want. Everyone says they want a man who they can cry to, who can make them laugh, and who they can tell everything, but that’s a lie. They want to feel appreciated, and they never want the courting to end. Courting never should end.
A women, wife or long term girl-friend, may be happy most of the time with talking and shareing things, but she still wants to feel like you’re scared to loose her. She still wants, even years after the courting has ended, for you to try to impress her. She wants surprise flowers and stumbling words. She wants you to pick her up and take her to dinner, take her to a movie, the ice cream parlor, any thing. She still wants little notesletting her know you were thinking of her.
Can love be lost, if it was truely love? Or if it is lost, was it love at all?
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samronsilva |
12 September, 2009 at 1:04 am
Those were very nice thoughts
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Princess Raelynn |
12 September, 2009 at 1:46 am
Thank you.
They’re so unorganized.
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Omen |
17 September, 2009 at 12:42 pm
I don’t know about you, but I don’t think love can be lost. In my personal experience, anyway, it can’t.
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Princess Raelynn |
17 September, 2009 at 6:46 pm
Yeah, i agree, but you have to have love to loose it.
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Omen |
19 September, 2009 at 1:05 pm
Was it not there?
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Princess Raelynn |
19 September, 2009 at 3:19 pm
I’m beginning to wonder.
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Omem |
23 September, 2009 at 4:50 pm
Ouch
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Omen |
23 September, 2009 at 4:50 pm
Haha, I put Omem.
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Princess Raelynn |
23 September, 2009 at 11:55 pm
I’ve come to a conclusion. Love can be lost.